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How does withholding create a power dynamic between individuals?

From 5 years of verified research · Vassili Sandqvist
A

Withholding creates an asymmetric power dynamic where the person practicing withholding maintains complete control over when and whether the unresolved loop closes. The individual being withheld from, however, has no control over their cognitive processing, which continues to focus on the unresolved state.

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