Why do limits often fail when they are not pre-committed?
Limits fail without pre-commitment because, in emotionally charged situations, the brain's capacity for rational decision-making is diminished. Under acute emotional arousal, individuals are more likely to capitulate on their limits, which is why it’s crucial to define consequences in advance.
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