Q

Why do defenses activate at the worst possible moments?

From 5 years of verified research · Vassili Sandqvist
A

Defenses activate most powerfully in situations that trigger intense anxiety, such as high-stakes conversations or significant emotional threats. Ironically, these are the very conditions that require accurate perception and rational judgment, making their activation counterproductive.

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