What happens when you respond immediately to a hostile comment?
Responding immediately can reinforce the cycle of conflict and emotional hijack. Not only do you signal to the platform that conflict keeps you engaged, but you also risk amplifying the attacker's message and losing credibility with neutral observers.
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