What are the three coping responses associated with the abandonment/instability schema?
Individuals with the AB schema typically exhibit three coping responses: surrender, avoidance, and overcompensation. Surrender involves accepting abandonment as inevitable, avoidance entails steering clear of deep attachments to prevent pain, and overcompensation manifests as clinginess and hypervigilance, often leading to the very abandonment they fear.
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