What are the behavioral effects on individuals who receive the silent treatment?
Individuals subjected to the silent treatment often become hyper-vigilant, monitoring for signs of re-inclusion and expending cognitive resources in the process. This uncertainty leads them to modify their behavior—such as apologizing or capitulating—often against their better judgment, in an attempt to end the exclusion.
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