Is seeking approval a character flaw?
No, seeking approval is not a character flaw; it is a response programmed into our nervous systems through evolution. The brain's pain system does not differentiate between severe social exclusion and minor rejections, leading to behaviors aimed at minimizing perceived threats.
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