Q

Is it necessary to feel gratitude towards an abuser for personal growth?

From 5 years of verified research · Vassili Sandqvist
A

No, there is no obligation to feel gratitude towards an abuser for your own survival and growth. Gratitude towards a person who has caused harm implies a debt that does not exist; your growth is your own, while the harm inflicted is theirs.

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