How should we view the relationship between discomfort and tolerance?
Tolerance should be understood as a behavioral standard rather than an emotional one. The key question is not whether one feels discomfort, but rather how one chooses to respond to that discomfort. The commitment to act fairly and without discrimination can be maintained regardless of internal feelings of discomfort.
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