Q

How should consequences for violating limits be chosen?

From 5 years of verified research · Vassili Sandqvist
A

Consequences must be realistic and something you are genuinely willing to enforce. If you set a consequence that you won’t follow through on, it undermines your limits and teaches others that violations carry no cost.

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