How should a functional boundary be framed?
A functional boundary should be framed as a statement about your own actions, not a demand for someone else's behavior. For example, instead of saying 'You need to stop criticizing me,' you would say, 'If you criticize me, I will leave the room.' This approach keeps the enforcement of the boundary within your control.
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