How do individuals with abandonment schemas engage in preemptive abandonment?
Individuals with strong abandonment schemas may protect themselves by ending relationships before they can be ended by others. This preemptive abandonment allows them to maintain a sense of control, even if it ironically creates the very loss they fear.
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